It's OK to Go Up the SlideBy: Heather Shumaker When it comes to parenting, sometimes you have to trust your gut. With her first book, Its OK Not to Share, Heather Shumaker overturned all the conventional rules of parenting with her renegade rules for raising competent and compassionate kids. In Its Ok To Go Up the Slide, Shumaker takes on new hot button issues with renegade rules such as: Recess Is A Right Its Ok Not To Kiss Grandma Ban Homework in Elementary School Safety