Confident Parents competent ChildrenFOUR SECONDS OF THOUGHT that's all it takes between accomplishing something or just going through the motions and getting nowhere. Kavanah is what makes a more effective parent. Like many parenting books, this book will give you very specific techniques for formulating what you want from each of your children and helping them meet your expectations. Unlike other parenting books, it will show you more than just the right techniques it will help you