Ashes in the Ocean: A Son's Story of Living Through and Learning From His Father's SuicideVernon Slovin was a legend one of the best swimmers in his home country of South Africa, and for a time in the world. He prided himself on being the best in sports, business, and life. He had it all, a big home, athletic prestige, fancy clothes and cars, and a beautiful wife and family. Everything was going his way until it all came tumbling down. He lost everything, including his own life. In the wake of his suicide he left his wife and two young